Monday, November 21, 2011

My connections to play

Quotes that i feel relate to play:

 "Play is our brain's favorite way of learning" Diane Ackerman

"Play gives children a chance to practice what they are learning" Fred Rogers

Essential Play items as a child







As a child growing up with one sibling my parents were very supportive of play as long as my sister was by my side since i was the oldest. After-school i had to make sure that my homework and chores were completed before i could ask if i could go outside and play. My parents allowed me to be involved with extracurricular activities but it was never forced. My parents allowed me to have friends and to go outside and play as long as i came home before the street lights came on.  As a child i enjoyed going to the local park district with my friends and playing at the playground and making up games such as house, IT(tag). On the weekends i enjoyed swimming at the local park district  with my friends.As a child i was a great swimming and enjoyed using my swim pass to go swimming everyday during the summer. Growing up as a child and  being involved with my peers allowed me to gain socio-emotional skills and bonds that would last a life time, since i still hangout with my peers from grammar school.

Play is very much different now than how play was when i was a child. I feel that children are more into video games and technogolgy now than going outside and playing. As a child, obesity wasn't a big concern as it is now, as a child we enjoyed playing and running around. As a child i remember making up games with my cousins and using our imaginations. Now children seem to be into TV and dangerous activiteis such as gangs, bullying and etc.

Tuesday, November 8, 2011

Relationship Reflection

Relationships to me are very important not only are they building blocks but its a support system. Not everyone has the same support as others, but i feel that all support is better than nothing. I consider myself has being very close with my parents, and my immediate family. I am trying harder to have a more close knit relationship with other people in my family, but that is work in progress.

Some of the people that i feel i have a close knit relationship with is my mother and father,and my sister. I am also very close with my fiance and building a continuous relationship with my 4 year old daughter(the love of my life).  And i am currently building a relationship with my coworkers.

My mother and father are significant people in my life, they have been a true blessing to me. They support me with everything that i put my mind to. We have a bond that is unbreakable. I hope that this bond will never be broken.

My sister, has been a support person to me every since we were little kids. We have gotten into a lot of trouble as kids; but as we have grown up, we have a bond that only sisters can have. She has a listening ear, and she respects me for who i am.

My immediate family which consistent of my future husband and my daughter; these people have my back no matter what. My fiance Tyrus has a listening ear, he is passionate about the goals i have set for myself and he will not let me settle for less than the BEST. My daughter who is only four cares so much about her mommy everyday she ask,"how was work mommy, and were the kids good".